Hey! My oldest son, Joshua (born in '73), joined a metal band as bass player... check this out: Dammit! He's a great rock and classical guitarist too. The band is based in San Francisco.
[Update Note: As of May 10 it seems this site is down... and to that all I can say is 'dammit!'... but I expect it will go back up again soon. Perhaps someone forgot to pay for hosting? The domain name seems to be paid for. Too bad they can't ask me for help - since I own a hosting business now I could fix them right up - but who would think to call Joshua's dear old mom?]